Commit to a direction, any direction

The biggest reason people don’t succeed is that they’re too scared to commit to a course of action. They give up on jobs easily, they procrastinate on career choices, they change their minds on even minor issues constantly. As a result, what action they do eventually take is half hearted and consequently ineffective. Don’t you know which way to go? Just choose and then commit to it 100% for a year. Then stop and see if you took the right path. Sure you’ll make mistakes, but over the course of a lifetime you’ll end up far ahead of those who never commit to anything.

Siimon Reynolds, 1998, ”When they Zig you Zag” Mcmillan Aust Ltd, Australia.

Candle Vs Electricity light

My friend once asked me why did I named this “Candle World” and called myself “Candle light” why did I want to travelled back  years and years and denied human civilization. We both laughed.

I was born a tiny ordinary candle, I have sisters brothers and friends all of them are so beautiful, only me left alone tiny and ordinary. The world surround me is so colourful Everyday I think of myself as tiny and ordinary.  Tiny and ordinary, it is me. By the time I still be left alone in my father draw my brothers and sisters were going to live the life they were born for. They went to crowded party and standed in  these crytal handle in these beautiful dinning table burnt themselves till dead, just for being there some beautiful decoration. Everything exsited in my immagination in my little head. Was that the life for me too? I asked but no one answer.  

One day, I was thrown away with nothing. How could I survive? What would happen if……I was scare.  One little girl picked me up. That was the first time I felt proud of myself at last there was someone that treasured me. I stayed in her pocket all the time. Her dress seemed like the only dress she had and I hardly breathed in there. However, till now I remembered how warm it was everytime she held me and and looked at me as I was a preciuos gift she had ever got. That was the best thing had happened to me. So I lived in the girl poket, thinking I was lucky because they were living on the street. I got a place to call HOME.

Winter was comming, the girl got sick her mum had to take care of her night and day. And I knew that the time had come for me. They lighted me up, I was no longer a tiny ordinary but the hope, the miracle to them. I found myself with joy and contentment though I was burning to die. I saw my reflection in the girl’s eyes, she smiled at me. And that moment I knew my journey was about to end. Now I am  going to see my brothers and sisters, I will tell them how wonderfull to live a useful life and fullfill my mission. I’d bet they will start to complaint how bore it was for some of them, and some will regret the time they had spent on earth. I just smile. I’m not like anyone of them.

By Candlelight

Everyone was born unique, special and deserve everything one dream of. Got that feeling in you?

There were days when my world was so dark. I was built in the box of my own, never stop blamming others for what I was feeling and was happenning around me.  I messed up with my life totally. My love one left me, my friends all seemed too busy, my job was meaningless. I was small and so insignificant,  everythings I’ve tried so hard to get now slipped away from my two hands in front of my own eyes.

Thanksfully, there was the light, the candle that light up my life totally. Today, while I’m writting this the first few lines got my tears… and now is the new chapter I can’t help but do you know every moment form now I just want to say “WoW”. I’ve found the meaning of my life. Nothing can stop me, I’ve learned the lesson I thanked all the people that come into my life. I forgive them as I believe anything that happen have a meaning. And i’m greatful to know I’ve taken the different road now and if I see them again “good on them” or just simply GOODBYE.

This is my real story how amazing feeling that one realize the power of a tiny, insignificant light. Follow my journey you would understand why I mention candle it’s amazing. Never underestimate those little things around you. It seems to me that one thing follow by another, once you have peace inside you,  you feel contentment, happy and everythings else is on your way. Perhaps, It reminds us of the well known story of “The little girl and the match box”. I have to say, in those crisis days of my life where everywhere I was heading was brick and stone. Anxiety, frustration, anger, you name them all were how I felt by the time. Then I started to be honest to myself, really honest no kidding. I had to be myself for myself not because of anyonelse. Then I changed.

From that day, I started to read books and meditate. The candle that I used in meditating brought back the inner peace in side me, and followed by the light of awareness woken me up totally. We all have beliefs and values, things and events have no meaning of themselves but how we look at them. Fortunate or not, good or bad, an end or opportunity is the way you want them to be. You and I, we have the power inside us. Have you ever feel there are so much more out there for you to achive, and you deserve a much more to what you have now?

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By Candlelight

Hello world!

Simple yet essential treat for human inner health. Light up a candle, warm up your heart you are the trully the light. The unique light in the universe that is you. The powerful YOU.

This blog aims to bring you all the widoms you ever need to make your journey on earth the most enjoyalbe experience. From interesting books, successfull models around the world, how to….questions and answer to achieve what you want.